Girls-Love yourself, dangit!

Well, its way too late, my mom didn't answer her phone, and so I need to find some way to get out my frustration...so here goes a vent...sorry! So as said in previous blog, I LOVE being a girl. We have it set in this world in so many ways. Growing up, I remember one day my dad got home from work and as he walked in the door and I was throwing a hair brush strait at my brother. My dad looked at him and said, "What did you do to your sister?" Awesome, right! :) There are so many great things about being a girl! One thing, though, that really bothers me is our dependence on what others think, especially boys. Why do we let one guy's opinion ruin our day? There have been so many times where if I don't get the attention I want from some random guy, I let it put me in a bad mood. I'm sure that in a year, he will not be in my life anymore and what he says should be out of my life in a minute. If you like your hair a certain way, wear it that way. If you like a shirt, wear it. If you don't, don't wear it. Best advice EVER: Go to your room. Sit down on your bed. And evaluate yourself. Learn to be okay with yourself BY YOURSELF. Or as Lucy off of 7th heaven says, "if you aren't happy as an individual of one how can you be happy in a relationship of two." Girls, love yourself! Because as Loreal says, 'you're worth it".
Boys do stupid things...after one does just read these lyrics by jessica simpson
I belong to me

It's not that I don't wanna share my life with you, baby
It's just that I'm the one I need to be true to, baby
And I won't give up me to be part of you

It's not that I don't want to have you in my life, baby
It's just you gotta know that it's got to be right, baby
Before I open up my heart to you

I don't need somebody to complete me
I complete myself
Nobody's got to belong to somebody else

I belong to me
I don't belong to you
My heart is my possession
I'll be my own reflection

I belong to me
I'm one, not half of two
And if you're gonna love me
You should know this, baby
That I belong to me

I gotta let you know before I let you in, baby
That who I am is not about who I am with, baby
That don't mean I don't wanna be here with you, I do

Love don't mean changin' who you are
To be who somebody wants you to be
Nobody's got to belong to nobody

Don't get me wrong, I love boys, and can't wait to marry one and be with him until the day after forever, but many boys will come along and could possibly break my heart until I find the one that will complete me...until then, this song is the bomb.com!
Really, just love yourself! That's all!